Wednesday, February 9, 2011

A Sexy Questionnaire

A friend requested some more sexy stuff in my blog and I'm happy to oblige, but I want to get a little info about the readership so I came up with this questionnaire.  It looks long, but should only take 5-10 minutes to complete.  I think I covered everything, but feel free to elaborate if I missed anything that you'd like to share.

Please copy and paste this questionnaire into the comment box below and input your own information.  Do make the comment anonymously because I want truthful answers.  You can always send your answer to bloggymcbloggerstein@gmail.com but be aware that I'll probably know who sent the questionnaire in if you go that route. 

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What is your gender?
What is your age? 
What is your sexual orientation?
At what age did you lose your virginity?
How many sexual partners have you had?

Are you in a relationship?
If so, how long have you been with your significant other?
How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week?
How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week?
How often to you give or receive oral sex in a given week?
Have any of these numbers measurably changed since the early days of your relationship?

Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom?  If so, which ones?
Do you role play?  If so, what do you like?  Example:  teacher/student, employer/employee, etc.
Do you try any BDSM?  If so, what?
Do you swing or have an open relationship?

What is your opinion on porn?
What kind of porn do you like?
What kind of porn do you not like?
Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? 
Do you look at/watch porn by yourself?  If so, does your significant other know?
Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you?
Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn?

How is your pubic region groomed:  hardwood, Berber, or shag?
How is your significant other's pubic region groomed?
How do you prefer genitals to be groomed?
Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences?

Have you ever cheated on your significant other?
Have you ever cheated on anyone?
If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know?
Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion?
Have you ever been cheated on?  If so, did it destroy your relationship?

Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom?  If so, what?
Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom?  If so, what?
If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why?

Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)?
How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week?
How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week?
To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week?

Anything else?  Please share.

7 comments:

  1. What is your gender? Female
    What is your age? 35
    What is your sexual orientation? Straight
    At what age did you lose your virginity? 13
    How many sexual partners have you had? None of your damn business! Okay, I'm not sure. . .I ran out of fingers & toes to count.

    Are you in a relationship? Yes
    If so, how long have you been with your significant other? 8 years
    How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week? Depends. Am I pregnant or nursing? If not, I prefer to do it every few days.
    How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week? It's not a weekly event. Every other month perhaps? I don't know, whenever the urge strikes.
    How often to you give or receive oral sex in a given week? Anytime. I like to give head and I'd probably do it every day if it was wanted, but I don't particulary like getting it. I don't like anyone to paw around with their face in my pussy.
    Have any of these numbers measurably changed since the early days of your relationship? We used to do it every single day for about a year. It was a wonderful year!

    Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom? If so, which ones? I'm partial to the Magic Wand (plug in vibrator), but I don't care much for other toys since my pussy broke a G-spot vibrator. I squeezed so hard that it broke!
    Do you role play? If so, what do you like? Example: teacher/student, employer/employee, etc. Anything kinky works for me. I like to take a submissive role.
    Do you try any BDSM? If so, what? Not so much these days.
    Do you swing or have an open relationship? I've actually never done either. . .I wonder how it works sometimes, but I think it's like communism: It sounds good in theory, but it doesn't work in real life.

    What is your opinion on porn? I like it.
    What kind of porn do you like? I'm old-fashioned and simple; I like guy on girl fucking.
    What kind of porn do you not like? I hate the freaky shit that is all over porn these days. I don't want to know if a girl can take a fist up her ass; I really don't.
    Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? Yes.
    Do you look at/watch porn by yourself? If so, does your significant other know? Yes, I do. And, yes, he does. At least I assume he does.
    Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you? He absolutely does.
    Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn? Sort of.

    How is your pubic region groomed: hardwood, Berber, or shag? Berber, I guess. Those are weird options.
    How is your significant other's pubic region groomed? It depends. Somewhere between shag & berber I suppose.
    How do you prefer genitals to be groomed? Berber I guess.
    Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences? Not really; I've always liked to keep the undercarriage clean. Whatever is (or is not) being sported up top is purely for fashion.

    Have you ever cheated on your significant other? Never.
    Have you ever cheated on anyone? Never.
    If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know? n/a
    Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion? n/a
    Have you ever been cheated on? If so, did it destroy your relationship? Yes and yes & no.

    Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom? If so, what? I'm not excessively fond of anal, but sometimes it's cool.
    Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom? If so, what? I will not share.
    If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why? I'm a jealous bitch?

    Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)? Yes!
    How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week? Depends on the week.
    How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week? Every single day.
    To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week? Not a clue. I'm assuming it's daily for him too.

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  2. What is your gender? Female
    What is your age? 36
    What is your sexual orientation? Straight
    At what age did you lose your virginity? 14
    How many sexual partners have you had? Too many to count

    Are you in a relationship? Yes
    If so, how long have you been with your significant other? 13 years
    How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week? 1-2
    How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week? NONE
    How often to you give or receive oral sex in a given week? Rarely
    Have any of these numbers measurably changed since the early days of your relationship? A little

    Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom? If so, which ones? Sometimes, vibrating things
    Do you role play? No If so, what do you like? Example: teacher/student, employer/employee, etc.
    Do you try any BDSM? No If so, what?
    Do you swing or have an open relationship? No

    What is your opinion on porn? I think it is exposed to people too young, which skews their views of sex.
    What kind of porn do you like? None really
    What kind of porn do you not like? Most of it
    Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? Maybe at times, but not regularly
    Do you look at/watch porn by yourself? No If so, does your significant other know?
    Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you? I really don't think so
    Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn? Once or twice

    How is your pubic region groomed: hardwood, Berber, or shag? Berber, but I would keep it hardwood if I felt like keeping it groomed all the time....I just don't have the time or motivation.
    How is your significant other's pubic region groomed? Shaved
    How do you prefer genitals to be groomed? Not long, but doesn't have to be shaved.
    Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences? No

    Have you ever cheated on your significant other? No
    Have you ever cheated on anyone? Maybe old boyfriends in my wild days
    If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know? I really don't remember
    Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion? Honestly, I don't remember (I try to block those days from my memory)
    Have you ever been cheated on? I don't think so If so, did it destroy your relationship?

    Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom? Anal sex is a big NO If so, what?
    Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom? See above answer If so, what?
    If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why? I don't understand the question....something wild? Just alot of sexual partners, something I kida wish I could take back sometimes

    Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)? Yes
    How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week? Every time we have sex
    How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week? Not often
    To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week? Every time we have sex

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  3. What is your gender? Male
    What is your age? Over 40
    What is your sexual orientation? Straight
    At what age did you lose your virginity? 17
    How many sexual partners have you had? Over 15, less than 50
    Are you in a relationship? Yes, very much
    If so, how long have you been with your significant other? > 7 years
    How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week? .25 to .50
    How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week? .001 or less
    How often to you give or receive oral sex in a given week? .50
    Have any of these numbers measurably changed since
    the early days of your relationship? Yes
    Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom? If so, which ones? Occasionally, vibrating things
    Do you role play? If so, what do you like? Example: teacher/student,
    employer/employee, etc. Sometimes
    Do you try any BDSM? If so, what? NO
    Do you swing or have an open relationship? NO WHAY!!!
    What is your opinion on porn? Me likey
    What kind of porn do you like? Straight stuff
    What kind of porn do you not like? Gay, Gay, and Oh Yeah, Gay!
    Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? Yes
    Do you look at/watch porn by yourself? If so, does your significant other know? Yes, I guess.
    Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you? Yes
    Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn? Is this a trick question?
    How is your pubic region groomed: hardwood, Berber, or shag? Shag
    How is your significant other's pubic region groomed? Berber
    How do you prefer genitals to be groomed? Yes
    Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences? Yeah possibly
    Have you ever cheated on your significant other? No, never
    Have you ever cheated on anyone? Yes
    If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know? Both
    Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion? No
    Have you ever been cheated on? If so, did it destroy your relationship? Probably, No
    Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom? If so, what? Cry.
    Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom? If so, what? Beg.
    If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why? Anything that hurts, me.
    Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)? Absolutely
    How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week? .25 to .50
    How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week? 4 to 5
    To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week? Don’t know.
    Anything else? Please share.

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  4. What is your gender?Female
    What is your age? 35
    What is your sexual orientation?Straight
    At what age did you lose your virginity?15
    How many sexual partners have you had?10ish

    Are you in a relationship?Yes
    If so, how long have you been with your significant other?8yrs
    How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week?2ish
    How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week?0
    How often to you give or receive oral sex in a given week?Maybe 1
    Have any of these numbers measurably changed since the early days of your relationship?Yes

    Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom? If so, which ones?Yes,vibe
    Do you role play? If so, what do you like? Example: teacher/student, employer/employee, etc. No not really
    Do you try any BDSM? If so, what?light bondgage, I wouldn't really call BDSM though.
    Do you swing or have an open relationship?No

    What is your opinion on porn?It's fun sometimes
    What kind of porn do you like?F/M or F/F
    What kind of porn do you not like?M/M or the really crazy shit.
    Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? Once in a while
    Do you look at/watch porn by yourself? If so, does your significant other know?yes, I don't know. I don't hide the fact, but I also don't chat about it.
    Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you? I think he may occasionally.
    Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn?Sure

    How is your pubic region groomed: hardwood, Berber, or shag? Berber
    How is your significant other's pubic region groomed? Sometimes shag, usually Berber.
    How do you prefer genitals to be groomed? Berber, hardwood itches unless there is fastidious maintenance, and who has time for that anymore.
    Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences? Not really

    Have you ever cheated on your significant other?No
    Have you ever cheated on anyone?Yes
    If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know?Some one I knew/worked with.
    Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion?Yes, eventually, though my partner never knew about it.
    Have you ever been cheated on? If so, did it destroy your relationship? Not that I am aware of.

    Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom? If so, what? Anal
    Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom? If so, what?Anal
    If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why?I just don't want to go there.

    Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)?Yes
    How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week?Always
    How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week?2-3 times
    To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week? I know he does during sex, other than that I don't know. If I had to guess I would say 1-2 by himself.

    Anything else? Please share.

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  5. What is your gender? FEMALE
    What is your age? 33
    What is your sexual orientation? STRAIGHT WITH CURIOSITIES
    At what age did you lose your virginity? 15
    How many sexual partners have you had? MORE THAN MY FINGERS AND TOES
    Are you in a relationship? YES
    If so, how long have you been with your significant other? 15 YEARS
    How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week? 3 TO 5 TIMES A WEEK
    How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week? MAYBE ONCE A MONTH
    How often to you give or receive oral sex in a given week? A COUPLE
    Have any of these numbers measurably changed since the early days of your relationship? YES

    Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom? If so, which ones? YES, DILDOS, VIBRATORS
    Do you role play? If so, what do you like? NO Example: teacher/student, employer/employee, etc.
    Do you try any BDSM? If so, what? NOT REALLY
    Do you swing or have an open relationship? NO

    What is your opinion on porn? USED TO NOT MIND IT BUT NOW I WONT WATCH IT.
    What kind of porn do you like? UED TO BE ALL KIND
    What kind of porn do you not like? NONE NOW
    Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? NOT ANYMORE
    Do you look at/watch porn by yourself? If so, does your significant other know? NO & NO
    Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you? YES
    Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn? SOME

    How is your pubic region groomed: hardwood, Berber, or shag? SOMETIMES A LITTLE OF ALL, USUALLY HARDWOOD
    How is your significant other's pubic region groomed? LMAO - 70'S AFRO
    How do you prefer genitals to be groomed? TRIMMED ON MEN
    Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences? NO

    Have you ever cheated on your significant other? NO
    Have you ever cheated on anyone? YES
    If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know? BOTH
    Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion? NO
    Have you ever been cheated on? If so, did it destroy your relationship? YES AND NO

    Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom? If so, what? SWALLOW
    Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom? If so, what? SWALLOW
    If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why? 3SOME WITH THE HUBBY AND ANOTHER WOMAN. HE WILL NOT TOUCH HER

    Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)? VERY
    How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week? EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX WITH HIM
    How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week? 2-3
    To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week? EVERYTIME WE HAVE SEX TOGETHER


    Anything else? Please share.

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  6. What is your gender? Female
    What is your age? Over 40
    What is your sexual orientation? Straight
    At what age did you lose your virginity? 28
    How many sexual partners have you had? More than 10 less than 30

    Are you in a relationship? Yes
    If so, how long have you been with your significant other? 6 years
    How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week? Depends on the week. Sometimes 2-4 othertimes not at all.
    How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week? Never
    How often do you give or receive oral sex in a given week? 3-5
    Have any of these numbers measurably changed since the early days of your relationship? Yes.

    Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom? If so, which ones? Very rarely use a vibrator.
    Do you role play? If so, what do you like? Example: teacher/student, employer/employee, etc. No
    Do you try any BDSM? If so, what? No
    Do you swing or have an open relationship? No

    What is your opinion on porn? Unrealistic
    What kind of porn do you like? None
    What kind of porn do you not like? All of it.
    Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? Did once years ago.
    Do you look at/watch porn by yourself? No If so, does your significant other know? n/a
    Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you? He does not.
    Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn? Nope

    How is your pubic region groomed: hardwood, Berber, or shag? hardwood
    How is your significant other's pubic region groomed? hardwood
    How do you prefer genitals to be groomed? no preference really.
    Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences? No

    Have you ever cheated on your significant other? Never
    Have you ever cheated on anyone? Once
    If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know? Someone I knew
    Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion? No...it was already on its last legs. Plus it happened after I was cheated on already.
    Have you ever been cheated on? If so, did it destroy your relationship? Yes. The relationship was not going to last anyway so it ended for several reasons. The cheating was part but not a big part of it. He told me about it right after it happened and a month later I had a tryst with a former friend with benefits.

    Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom? If so, what? Anal sex
    Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom? If so, what? Anal sex
    If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why? Anal sex is too much of a mental gross out for me. It is an Exit hole only and I don't want anything up there. Funny how when a man wants to and asks me why I ask how he would like a big d*ck up his a**. He says "no way" and I say "you see my point".

    Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)? Yes
    How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week? Every time we are together. 2-5 times??
    How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week? Almost never. I don't really self-pleasure anymore. Used to back in the day. Think I grew out of it.
    To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week? Everytime we are together. 2-5 times??

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  7. What is your gender? Female
    What is your age? 36
    What is your sexual orientation? Straight but have been with other women
    At what age did you lose your virginity? 12
    How many sexual partners have you had? ? Good question???

    Are you in a relationship? Yes
    If so, how long have you been with your significant other? 1 1/2 years
    How often do you engage in vaginal sex in a given week? Rarely..gotta see each other for that to happen
    How often do you engage in anal sex in a given week? never
    How often to you give or receive oral sex in a given week? very rare
    Have any of these numbers measurably changed since the early days of your relationship? yes

    Do you use any sex toys in the bedroom? If so, which ones? vibrators, dildo etc...
    Do you role play? If so, what do you like? Example: teacher/student, employer/employee, etc. teacher/student
    Do you try any BDSM? If so, what? yes Maledome...I love being the sub
    Do you swing or have an open relationship? I swing...he doesn't know

    What is your opinion on porn? Love it
    What kind of porn do you like? All types
    What kind of porn do you not like? woman on woman
    Do you look at/watch porn with your significant other? I would love to, but he doesn't
    Do you look at/watch porn by yourself? If so, does your significant other know? yes/yes
    Do you think or know that your significant other looks at/watches porn without you? doubt it
    Have you ever found bedroom inspiration in porn? always

    How is your pubic region groomed: hardwood, Berber, or shag? hardwood
    How is your significant other's pubic region groomed? shag
    How do you prefer genitals to be groomed? Berber
    Has porn influenced your pubic grooming habits and preferences? For me yes, for male...I just know what I like

    Have you ever cheated on your significant other? yes, in a "relation" now
    Have you ever cheated on anyone? only the one I am with
    If you have, was it with a stranger or someone you know? someone I know
    Was your primary relationship destroyed from the indiscretion? nope
    Have you ever been cheated on? If so, did it destroy your relationship? yes/no, other stupidities ruined it

    Is there anything that you prefer not to do in the bedroom? If so, what? not a fan of anal, other than that just about anything goes
    Is there anything that you absolutely will not do in the bedroom? If so, what? nope
    If you have anything that's off the table, can you elaborate on why? not really, I just love to orgasm and love to find ways to make that happen

    Is sex an important part of your relationship (or relationships)? not with the man I am with now, I love him for everything else...that is why I ventured
    How often do you orgasm with your significant other in a given week? read above..=(
    How often do you orgasm by yourself in a given week? as many as possible...not sure if I can count that high..LOL
    To the best of your knowledge, how often does your partner orgasm in a given week? good question..i don't see him enough to tell you

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