Monday, April 11, 2011

When Do You Quit?

I'm forced to maintain some anonymity here, but understand that I am not talking about my relationship with my husband.

Have you ever been in a relationship in which you can't trust the other person?  I like honesty and it's aggravating when others aren't truthful with me because I'd rather not wonder if I can take what someone says at face value.  I kinda feel like I shouldn't bother trying if I can't rely on them or believe in them.

At what point do you simply throw up your arms in frustration and give up on having a relationship with someone? 


  1. Sometimes it takes a while but if u see that there is a habit of untruthfulness then it is time to cut ties if u r not willing to just deal with it and say I know I can't trust this person so I won't tell them anything and take what they say with a grain of salt. To me that is not a friend if u have to do the latter of my statement and I would just write that person off

  2. I'm pretty sure that I would have called it quits long ago if it were any other person. The damn annoying part of that admission is that I think they know it and they're banking on my reluctance to pull the plug on the relationship. :(